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		By: Best of the Christian Blogosphere, August, 2013 - Dreaming Beneath the Spires		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2013 00:58:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] 5 Rachelle Gardner—Tell the Truth and People will Listen [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		By: Monday Start: Resources for the Week - A Place for the God-Hungry		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440549</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Aug 2013 21:07:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] might look at this article by Rachel Gardner &#8220;Are You Afraid to Tell the Truth.&#8221;  A great question whether one writes, speaks, preaches, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] might look at this article by Rachel Gardner &#8220;Are You Afraid to Tell the Truth.&#8221;  A great question whether one writes, speaks, preaches, [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: JoAnne Silvia		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440506</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoAnne Silvia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Aug 2013 03:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My husband and I are writing about the lessons we learned in the years before we found each other again. When I write about  staying too long (only a year) in a sick relationship, I risk people thinking: She should have known better! But if it can happen to me, it can happen to anybody and I get to share about overcoming that kind of addiction and recovering my self esteem. 

   I love Ann Lamott&#039;s writing because she makes me feel not so alone with the worries in my head. I just wish I could be half as I find her to be.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband and I are writing about the lessons we learned in the years before we found each other again. When I write about  staying too long (only a year) in a sick relationship, I risk people thinking: She should have known better! But if it can happen to me, it can happen to anybody and I get to share about overcoming that kind of addiction and recovering my self esteem. </p>
<p>   I love Ann Lamott&#8217;s writing because she makes me feel not so alone with the worries in my head. I just wish I could be half as I find her to be.</p>
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		By: Lynda		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440436</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lynda]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2013 13:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440432&quot;&gt;Andrew Budek-Schmeisser&lt;/a&gt;.

Aww... thanks! I am taking your encouragement to heart.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440432">Andrew Budek-Schmeisser</a>.</p>
<p>Aww&#8230; thanks! I am taking your encouragement to heart.</p>
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		By: Andrew Budek-Schmeisser		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440432</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrew Budek-Schmeisser]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2013 05:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440429&quot;&gt;Lynda&lt;/a&gt;.

The picture of you guys taking down the Twinkies is hysterical. I love it!


I hope you&#039;ll stay with your memoir. You have a lovely ability to paint a word-picture, even in such a limited forum. I think you&#039;ll be able to reach a lot of people, and perhaps change their lives.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440429">Lynda</a>.</p>
<p>The picture of you guys taking down the Twinkies is hysterical. I love it!</p>
<p>I hope you&#8217;ll stay with your memoir. You have a lovely ability to paint a word-picture, even in such a limited forum. I think you&#8217;ll be able to reach a lot of people, and perhaps change their lives.</p>
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		By: Lynda		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440429</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lynda]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2013 00:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440297&quot;&gt;Andrew Budek-Schmeisser&lt;/a&gt;.

Very well said. My husband and I both have severe PTSD. His was caused by combat when he was a very young US Marine in Vietnam, and mine stems from multiple childhood traumas. In our early days on Facebook, we each learned the hard way about the consequences of posting things that are inappropriate for that forum.

Now I keep my twitter and FB postings mostly happy and light, while also being honest about our less-than-perfect life. For example, today I posted that last night my hubby brought home a box of Twinkies. By this morning, between my overweight husband, overweight me, and our overweight rescue dog (who also has PTSD), we had eaten the whole box... and the dog was sitting with the empty Twinkie box on her bed, staring at it.

We 3 put the FUN in dysfunction!

I&#039;ve started and stopped a number of blogs because I was stymied by how much to say, even when using a pen name. I am currently writing a memoir and this is a tough issue that I struggle with every day. One big question I try to keep in mind when it comes to my writing is: What would Jesus do? (For those who don&#039;t relate to Jesus like I do, it would be appropriate to ask: What would love do?)

I appreciate the wisdom in this post and in all the comments. I particularly relate to Andrew&#039;s comment. Brilliant!
Lynda]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440297">Andrew Budek-Schmeisser</a>.</p>
<p>Very well said. My husband and I both have severe PTSD. His was caused by combat when he was a very young US Marine in Vietnam, and mine stems from multiple childhood traumas. In our early days on Facebook, we each learned the hard way about the consequences of posting things that are inappropriate for that forum.</p>
<p>Now I keep my twitter and FB postings mostly happy and light, while also being honest about our less-than-perfect life. For example, today I posted that last night my hubby brought home a box of Twinkies. By this morning, between my overweight husband, overweight me, and our overweight rescue dog (who also has PTSD), we had eaten the whole box&#8230; and the dog was sitting with the empty Twinkie box on her bed, staring at it.</p>
<p>We 3 put the FUN in dysfunction!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve started and stopped a number of blogs because I was stymied by how much to say, even when using a pen name. I am currently writing a memoir and this is a tough issue that I struggle with every day. One big question I try to keep in mind when it comes to my writing is: What would Jesus do? (For those who don&#8217;t relate to Jesus like I do, it would be appropriate to ask: What would love do?)</p>
<p>I appreciate the wisdom in this post and in all the comments. I particularly relate to Andrew&#8217;s comment. Brilliant!<br />
Lynda</p>
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		By: A Writing and Reading Life &#124; Books: Publishing, Reading, Writing		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440412</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[A Writing and Reading Life &#124; Books: Publishing, Reading, Writing]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Aug 2013 14:35:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Like a Hero From Canada Writes: Can writing be taught? by David Bergen From Rachelle Gardner: Are You Afraid to Tell the Truth? AND Developing Resilience AND One Simple Secret for Success as a Writer by Chad R. Allen From What [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Like a Hero From Canada Writes: Can writing be taught? by David Bergen From Rachelle Gardner: Are You Afraid to Tell the Truth? AND Developing Resilience AND One Simple Secret for Success as a Writer by Chad R. Allen From What [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: DeeLancaster		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440407</link>

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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Aug 2013 15:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I think the key is balance.  Victories and struggles can be shared but too much of one or the other is maybe not responsible.  Whining is relative to what people can tolerate and &#039;poor me&#039; is different than &#039;hey, I&#039;ve experienced this and am working through it the best I can.&#039;  If every post is about your fabulous trip, your kid making the honor roll and your fabulous weight loss success, people will get bored or resentful anyway.  Reality is messy, but also beautiful and fascinating.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the key is balance.  Victories and struggles can be shared but too much of one or the other is maybe not responsible.  Whining is relative to what people can tolerate and &#8216;poor me&#8217; is different than &#8216;hey, I&#8217;ve experienced this and am working through it the best I can.&#8217;  If every post is about your fabulous trip, your kid making the honor roll and your fabulous weight loss success, people will get bored or resentful anyway.  Reality is messy, but also beautiful and fascinating.</p>
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		By: Charles R Stubbs		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440343</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Charles R Stubbs]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Aug 2013 09:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Too true! I prefer to write about characters with flaws that readers can identify with. It also makes for more interesting and unpredictable plots. Sometimes I find my characters take me in directions I never expected them to!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Too true! I prefer to write about characters with flaws that readers can identify with. It also makes for more interesting and unpredictable plots. Sometimes I find my characters take me in directions I never expected them to!</p>
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		By: Top Picks Thursday 08-01-2013 &#124; The Author Chronicles		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Top Picks Thursday 08-01-2013 &#124; The Author Chronicles]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Aug 2013 17:02:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] sleep, David Thorpe explores the crucial writing asset of confidence, and Rachelle Gardner asks if we are afraid to tell the truth and if we have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] sleep, David Thorpe explores the crucial writing asset of confidence, and Rachelle Gardner asks if we are afraid to tell the truth and if we have [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Writing Blog Roundup: Wrong Advice, Plot Twist, Writer&#8217;s Block, Telling the Truth and Character&#8217;s Clothes &#124; Sly Twin Tiger		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440332</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Writing Blog Roundup: Wrong Advice, Plot Twist, Writer&#8217;s Block, Telling the Truth and Character&#8217;s Clothes &#124; Sly Twin Tiger]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Jul 2013 11:20:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Are you afraid to tell the truth? I am a reader of memoirs. I love them as much as I adore good fiction. I love the way great memoirists unflinchingly bare themselves to us, showing the good and the bad, the admirable moments and the shameful ones . . . [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Are you afraid to tell the truth? I am a reader of memoirs. I love them as much as I adore good fiction. I love the way great memoirists unflinchingly bare themselves to us, showing the good and the bad, the admirable moments and the shameful ones . . . [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Carolynnwith2ns		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440330</link>

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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Jul 2013 02:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440315&quot;&gt;Carolynnwith2ns&lt;/a&gt;.

I just reread my comment...jeez I sound so snooty. 
&quot;Pay me and I&#039;ll be honest&quot;, what a crock. 


Rachelle, I&#039;m a minnow in a mud puddle who tries to be amusing, sometimes I succeed and sometimes my cheeks pink and my family cringes. At least I&#039;m trying. Every single time I post, comment, submit and publish I try to be unafraid and as authentic as I can be. 

Now that&#039;s honest and it&#039;s free. 
BTW you are a voice of reason in this business. I just wanted to tell you that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440315">Carolynnwith2ns</a>.</p>
<p>I just reread my comment&#8230;jeez I sound so snooty.<br />
&#8220;Pay me and I&#8217;ll be honest&#8221;, what a crock. </p>
<p>Rachelle, I&#8217;m a minnow in a mud puddle who tries to be amusing, sometimes I succeed and sometimes my cheeks pink and my family cringes. At least I&#8217;m trying. Every single time I post, comment, submit and publish I try to be unafraid and as authentic as I can be. </p>
<p>Now that&#8217;s honest and it&#8217;s free.<br />
BTW you are a voice of reason in this business. I just wanted to tell you that.</p>
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		By: Peter DeHaan		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Peter DeHaan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jul 2013 22:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is an interesting post and discussion. I now realize I respond differently depending on the audience/medium. In FB and Twitter, I&#039;m always positive. In blog posts, I skew towards the positive. However in my memoirs, my critique group and beta readers have cautioned me scale back some of my more forthright revelations, as in &quot;Are you sure you want to share that?&quot;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is an interesting post and discussion. I now realize I respond differently depending on the audience/medium. In FB and Twitter, I&#8217;m always positive. In blog posts, I skew towards the positive. However in my memoirs, my critique group and beta readers have cautioned me scale back some of my more forthright revelations, as in &#8220;Are you sure you want to share that?&#8221;</p>
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		By: Rachelle Gardner		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachelle Gardner]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jul 2013 21:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440313&quot;&gt;janell2rardon&lt;/a&gt;.

That is a hard topic to be totally honest about, isn&#039;t it? Way to go, for tackling it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://rachellegardner.com/are-you-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/#comment-440313">janell2rardon</a>.</p>
<p>That is a hard topic to be totally honest about, isn&#8217;t it? Way to go, for tackling it.</p>
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