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		By: Burton Haynes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2012 14:36:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I just want to tell you that I am just very new to blogging and really loved this web site. Very likely I’m going to bookmark your website . You surely come with perfect articles and reviews. Thanks a lot for sharing your website page.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just want to tell you that I am just very new to blogging and really loved this web site. Very likely I’m going to bookmark your website . You surely come with perfect articles and reviews. Thanks a lot for sharing your website page.</p>
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		By: Camille Cannon (Eide)		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Camille Cannon (Eide)]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 00:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Yeah, as the mom, I always eat the first two pancakes - you know, the ones too light in the middle, too dark around the edges, the ones I tried to cook before the pan was just the right temp? The ones you HAVE to cook just to sop up the extra oil so the next ones will be just right? And by the time the fam comes around, all they see are the pretty golden ones and they think I&#039;m the perfect cook. Hmm.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pancakes for dinner sounds &lt;i&gt;really&lt;/i&gt; good.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Yeah, as the mom, I always eat the first two pancakes &#8211; you know, the ones too light in the middle, too dark around the edges, the ones I tried to cook before the pan was just the right temp? The ones you HAVE to cook just to sop up the extra oil so the next ones will be just right? And by the time the fam comes around, all they see are the pretty golden ones and they think I&#8217;m the perfect cook. Hmm.</p>
<p>Pancakes for dinner sounds <i>really</i> good.</p>
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		By: Marian		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Marian]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 00:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Writing is fun, but publishing is business. I know I&#039;ve got a manuscript or two which &lt;b&gt;I&lt;/b&gt; don&#039;t want to see, much less get published. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for the post!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Writing is fun, but publishing is business. I know I&#8217;ve got a manuscript or two which <b>I</b> don&#8217;t want to see, much less get published. </p>
<p>Thanks for the post!</p>
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		By: Timothy Fish		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/ask-the-agent-communication-part-deux/#comment-5899</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Timothy Fish]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 19:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;&lt;b&gt;Book 1:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;i&gt;I have something to say, here it is.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Book 2:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;i&gt;I have book writing licked. I can write anything and it will be great.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Book 3:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;i&gt;That didn’t turn out so great. Let me see if I can go back to the basics and do this thing right.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First projects are a learning experience and second projects frequently fail due to overconfidence. By the time we get to the third project we not only have the experience of the two previous projects, but our level of humility is closer to were it should be.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>><b>Book 1:</b> <i>I have something to say, here it is.</i><br /><b>Book 2:</b> <i>I have book writing licked. I can write anything and it will be great.</i><br /><b>Book 3:</b> <i>That didn’t turn out so great. Let me see if I can go back to the basics and do this thing right.</i></p>
<p>First projects are a learning experience and second projects frequently fail due to overconfidence. By the time we get to the third project we not only have the experience of the two previous projects, but our level of humility is closer to were it should be.</p>
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		By: Rosslyn Elliott		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/ask-the-agent-communication-part-deux/#comment-5898</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rosslyn Elliott]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 18:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Richard says: &lt;i&gt;One of my acquaintances, a full-time independent editor in the ABA world, tells me that there&#039;s a general consensus among his colleagues that it generally takes at least three completed books to &quot;get it.&quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Richard - I&#039;ve give some thought to this idea of a writer&#039;s apprenticeship period. I think that we all pay our dues, but we do so in diverse ways. We have to pay our dues in life experience to be able to write in our chosen genres. We also have to enter some kind of apprenticeship in our craft. I have friends who are currently writing their way through their apprenticeship, as you describe. I have other friends who went to grad school in creative writing or in literature and paid their dues by study and massive amounts of reading. Either way, it&#039;s seriously hard work, and worthy of respect. What matters is knowing how you did your own apprenticeship, so you can recognize whether you may have apprentice-level work that you shouldn&#039;t submit.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Richard says: <i>One of my acquaintances, a full-time independent editor in the ABA world, tells me that there&#8217;s a general consensus among his colleagues that it generally takes at least three completed books to &#8220;get it.&#8221;</i></p>
<p>Richard &#8211; I&#8217;ve give some thought to this idea of a writer&#8217;s apprenticeship period. I think that we all pay our dues, but we do so in diverse ways. We have to pay our dues in life experience to be able to write in our chosen genres. We also have to enter some kind of apprenticeship in our craft. I have friends who are currently writing their way through their apprenticeship, as you describe. I have other friends who went to grad school in creative writing or in literature and paid their dues by study and massive amounts of reading. Either way, it&#8217;s seriously hard work, and worthy of respect. What matters is knowing how you did your own apprenticeship, so you can recognize whether you may have apprentice-level work that you shouldn&#8217;t submit.</p>
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		By: Jessica		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jessica]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 18:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Or the first few pancakes, in my case Richard! :-)&lt;br /&gt;Great post, as usual. I&#039;m glad you keep bringing up the discussion thing because it makes me very nervous but I know it&#039;s necessary for a good, working relationship.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Or the first few pancakes, in my case Richard! 🙂<br />Great post, as usual. I&#8217;m glad you keep bringing up the discussion thing because it makes me very nervous but I know it&#8217;s necessary for a good, working relationship.</p>
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		By: lynnrush		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/ask-the-agent-communication-part-deux/#comment-5896</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[lynnrush]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 17:19:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Great info.  I look at it as a long term relationship as well.  A partnership.  The only way to succeed is to talk, talk, talk.  Or in most cases, email....does anyone even talk anymore?  LOL.  No, seriously, IMHO that&#039;s how it should be.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was approached by an agency and had the, &quot;Oh yeah, we&#039;ll represent you on anything....we&#039;ll try and sell it.....&quot; attitude.  After further investigation, I chose not to go that route.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Great info.  I look at it as a long term relationship as well.  A partnership.  The only way to succeed is to talk, talk, talk.  Or in most cases, email&#8230;.does anyone even talk anymore?  LOL.  No, seriously, IMHO that&#8217;s how it should be.  </p>
<p>I was approached by an agency and had the, &#8220;Oh yeah, we&#8217;ll represent you on anything&#8230;.we&#8217;ll try and sell it&#8230;..&#8221; attitude.  After further investigation, I chose not to go that route.</p>
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		By: Amy Jo		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/ask-the-agent-communication-part-deux/#comment-5895</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amy Jo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 16:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;As usual, great information. Thanks for the follow-up! Hope you have a very productive (and blessed!) day! :-) Amy]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>As usual, great information. Thanks for the follow-up! Hope you have a very productive (and blessed!) day! 🙂 Amy</p>
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		By: Lisa Jordan		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisa Jordan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 16:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;When signing with an agent, you&#039;re partnering with that person to make the most of your writing career. Communication is a vital part of that trust relationship. I agree with Dan in that you can be honest without being hurtful.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>When signing with an agent, you&#8217;re partnering with that person to make the most of your writing career. Communication is a vital part of that trust relationship. I agree with Dan in that you can be honest without being hurtful.</p>
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		By: Dan		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 15:25:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;IMHO, one of the most important things an agent does for her clients is sell them--the client, not the book. When your focus is on selling the client, you want to make him or her look their best, since agents only make money when their clients do. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the things I&#039;ve been looking at while evaluating potential agents is honest communication. If a book is going to make me look bad, I want an agent who&#039;s going to say, &quot;Dan, you don&#039;t want to put this out there, because...(insert reason here.)&quot; If I&#039;ve written something that reeks, I&#039;d rather hear about it from an agent than from an editor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course, honesty doesn&#039;t have to mean ugliness. To quote one old sage I&#039;ve known, &quot;you can call a spade a spade without calling it a darned old shovel.&quot; :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;D.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>IMHO, one of the most important things an agent does for her clients is sell them&#8211;the client, not the book. When your focus is on selling the client, you want to make him or her look their best, since agents only make money when their clients do. </p>
<p>One of the things I&#8217;ve been looking at while evaluating potential agents is honest communication. If a book is going to make me look bad, I want an agent who&#8217;s going to say, &#8220;Dan, you don&#8217;t want to put this out there, because&#8230;(insert reason here.)&#8221; If I&#8217;ve written something that reeks, I&#8217;d rather hear about it from an agent than from an editor.</p>
<p>Of course, honesty doesn&#8217;t have to mean ugliness. To quote one old sage I&#8217;ve known, &#8220;you can call a spade a spade without calling it a darned old shovel.&#8221; 🙂</p>
<p>D.</p>
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		By: Katy McKenna		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Katy McKenna]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 15:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Thank you, Rachelle! I have notebooks full of angsty poetry I wrote in high school, but you won&#039;t be seeing it anytime soon. Actually, you&#039;ll never be seeing it. For all you do for me, that seems only fair.   :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I do plan, however, to inflict it upon my children who will dispose of my files someday. Tee, hee.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Thank you, Rachelle! I have notebooks full of angsty poetry I wrote in high school, but you won&#8217;t be seeing it anytime soon. Actually, you&#8217;ll never be seeing it. For all you do for me, that seems only fair.   🙂</p>
<p>I do plan, however, to inflict it upon my children who will dispose of my files someday. Tee, hee.</p>
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		By: Richard Mabry		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Richard Mabry]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 14:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Rachelle,&lt;br /&gt;One of my acquaintances, a full-time independent editor in the ABA world, tells me that there&#039;s a general consensus among his colleagues that it generally takes at least three completed books to &quot;get it.&quot; I&#039;ve decided that the first book (or two, or three) may be like the first waffle--the one you throw away.&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for the post.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Rachelle,<br />One of my acquaintances, a full-time independent editor in the ABA world, tells me that there&#8217;s a general consensus among his colleagues that it generally takes at least three completed books to &#8220;get it.&#8221; I&#8217;ve decided that the first book (or two, or three) may be like the first waffle&#8211;the one you throw away.<br />Thanks for the post.</p>
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		By: Kim Kasch		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/ask-the-agent-communication-part-deux/#comment-5890</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Kasch]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 14:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;I wrote a book of poetry, when I was in the 7th grade, so are you saying this might not be saleable?... :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It&#039;s hard to be objective after pouring your heart and soul into a project - that&#039;s why it&#039;s a great thing to have another partner look at the project with a fresh eye.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>I wrote a book of poetry, when I was in the 7th grade, so are you saying this might not be saleable?&#8230; 🙂</p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard to be objective after pouring your heart and soul into a project &#8211; that&#8217;s why it&#8217;s a great thing to have another partner look at the project with a fresh eye.</p>
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		By: Cheryl Barker		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Cheryl Barker]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 14:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Rachelle, there is a lot of wisdom in what you&#039;re saying. Kudos to you for watching out for your clients&#039; reputations.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Rachelle, there is a lot of wisdom in what you&#8217;re saying. Kudos to you for watching out for your clients&#8217; reputations.</p>
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