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		By: Rejection, Reviews, Regret—5 Cures for a Writer's Broken Heart &#124; Writing and Wellness		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rejection, Reviews, Regret—5 Cures for a Writer's Broken Heart &#124; Writing and Wellness]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2015 02:07:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] heartbreaking,” writes agent Rachelle Gardner, “because the book deserves to be read by many, many people. But it’s not just emotional, [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] heartbreaking,” writes agent Rachelle Gardner, “because the book deserves to be read by many, many people. But it’s not just emotional, [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: When Writing Breaks Your Heart—5 Ways to Get Back in the Game &#124; Writing and Wellness		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2015 08:07:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] heartbreaking,” writes agent Rachelle Gardner, “because the book deserves to be read by many, many people. But it’s not just emotional, [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] heartbreaking,” writes agent Rachelle Gardner, “because the book deserves to be read by many, many people. But it’s not just emotional, [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Literary Agent Tells All: 6 Things You Shouldn’t Expect From Your Agent		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/sometimes-you-fail/#comment-442297</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Literary Agent Tells All: 6 Things You Shouldn’t Expect From Your Agent]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2014 11:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] a surprise: agents don’t sell everything they pitch to editors. Even the best of the best have to shelve projects [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] a surprise: agents don’t sell everything they pitch to editors. Even the best of the best have to shelve projects [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: 18 Things I Loved on the Internet in March (Resources for Writers, Creators, and Dreamers) &#124; DIY Writing		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/sometimes-you-fail/#comment-437602</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[18 Things I Loved on the Internet in March (Resources for Writers, Creators, and Dreamers) &#124; DIY Writing]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 11:01:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] &#8220;Sometimes you fail. And it sucks,&#8221; says Rachelle Gardner, sharing the agent&#8217;s side of Alexis Grant&#8216;s quest to traditionally publish her travel memoir. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] &#8220;Sometimes you fail. And it sucks,&#8221; says Rachelle Gardner, sharing the agent&#8217;s side of Alexis Grant&#8216;s quest to traditionally publish her travel memoir. [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: At the end of the day, it&#8217;s a business &#124; Florida Writers Conference Blog		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/sometimes-you-fail/#comment-436491</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[At the end of the day, it&#8217;s a business &#124; Florida Writers Conference Blog]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 10:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Rachelle Gardner wrote about a book she believed in, but couldn&#8217;t sell. She tried everything and at the end of two years, she still [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Rachelle Gardner wrote about a book she believed in, but couldn&#8217;t sell. She tried everything and at the end of two years, she still [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Terrance Leon Austin		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/sometimes-you-fail/#comment-433044</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Terrance Leon Austin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Mar 2013 03:23:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks Rachelle. The post helped me to keep in mind that failure is defined only by quitting.  And from reading this post, Alexis will succeed because she refuses to quit. I will read the book that these publishers refused to represent. More than likely, it will be another success story for Alexis. Keep pressing forward Alexis. This trial is only making you stronger.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Rachelle. The post helped me to keep in mind that failure is defined only by quitting.  And from reading this post, Alexis will succeed because she refuses to quit. I will read the book that these publishers refused to represent. More than likely, it will be another success story for Alexis. Keep pressing forward Alexis. This trial is only making you stronger.</p>
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		By: Writers’ Roundup: March 8 &#124; skypream.org		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/sometimes-you-fail/#comment-433006</link>

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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Mar 2013 17:11:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] If you read my recent post on failure (and next steps for my travel memoir), don’t miss my agent’s take. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] If you read my recent post on failure (and next steps for my travel memoir), don’t miss my agent’s take. [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Sterling Editing &#187; Written on the internet		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/sometimes-you-fail/#comment-432997</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sterling Editing &#187; Written on the internet]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Mar 2013 15:36:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Two courageous posts about failing to sell a book from writer Alexis Grant and her agent Rachelle Gardner. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Two courageous posts about failing to sell a book from writer Alexis Grant and her agent Rachelle Gardner. [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Top Picks Thursday 03-07-2013 &#124; The Author Chronicles		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/sometimes-you-fail/#comment-432849</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Top Picks Thursday 03-07-2013 &#124; The Author Chronicles]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Mar 2013 18:04:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Even the best submission packet can garner a rejection. Agent Marie Lamba explains some of the reasons why she passes on queries. Agent Rachelle Gardner reminds us that agents experience rejection, too, as she shares how an agent feels when they fail to sell your book. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Even the best submission packet can garner a rejection. Agent Marie Lamba explains some of the reasons why she passes on queries. Agent Rachelle Gardner reminds us that agents experience rejection, too, as she shares how an agent feels when they fail to sell your book. [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Weekly offering of links to Blogs, Articles, Information, Discussion, Inspiration &#8230; and a Writing Contest! &#124; Books: Publishing, Reading, Writing		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/sometimes-you-fail/#comment-432174</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Weekly offering of links to Blogs, Articles, Information, Discussion, Inspiration &#8230; and a Writing Contest! &#124; Books: Publishing, Reading, Writing]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Mar 2013 16:49:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] From Rachelle Gardner Sometimes You Fail. And it Sucks. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] From Rachelle Gardner Sometimes You Fail. And it Sucks. [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Anastasia		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/sometimes-you-fail/#comment-432151</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anastasia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Mar 2013 14:39:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A solo backpacking trip through Africa? Sounds like something a travel bookstore I used to work at would sell, but alas, the bookstore is gone.

My point is, sometimes we&#039;re swept in events larger than ourselves. It&#039;s easy to think of selling something as winning or losing, but the more I think about it in the context of storytelling, the more I think it&#039;s not right. A book is not an Olympic runner. You can&#039;t bet on it to achieve in the world where every rule can be bent. If a story needs to be told, it can be told in other ways, and there is always audience, somewhere. It just needs to be reached.

Just my opinion, of course.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A solo backpacking trip through Africa? Sounds like something a travel bookstore I used to work at would sell, but alas, the bookstore is gone.</p>
<p>My point is, sometimes we&#8217;re swept in events larger than ourselves. It&#8217;s easy to think of selling something as winning or losing, but the more I think about it in the context of storytelling, the more I think it&#8217;s not right. A book is not an Olympic runner. You can&#8217;t bet on it to achieve in the world where every rule can be bent. If a story needs to be told, it can be told in other ways, and there is always audience, somewhere. It just needs to be reached.</p>
<p>Just my opinion, of course.</p>
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		By: Friday Features #46 - YESENIA VARGAS		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/sometimes-you-fail/#comment-432072</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Friday Features #46 - YESENIA VARGAS]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Mar 2013 02:17:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Sometimes You Fail. And it Sucks. &#8211; Rachelle Gardner [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Sometimes You Fail. And it Sucks. &#8211; Rachelle Gardner [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Micki Street		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/sometimes-you-fail/#comment-432066</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Micki Street]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Mar 2013 00:30:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks for this article Rachelle - it did enlighten me somewhat! I am surprised Alexis book wasn&#039;t picked up - such a shame. I have lived in Africa all my life and worked in the tourism industry before I retired. Thousands of people backpack through Africa every year - to my knowledge, not so many Americans. They&#039;re mostly Brits, and from European countries. It seems a book like Alexis would have been a great asset to future backpackers.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for this article Rachelle &#8211; it did enlighten me somewhat! I am surprised Alexis book wasn&#8217;t picked up &#8211; such a shame. I have lived in Africa all my life and worked in the tourism industry before I retired. Thousands of people backpack through Africa every year &#8211; to my knowledge, not so many Americans. They&#8217;re mostly Brits, and from European countries. It seems a book like Alexis would have been a great asset to future backpackers.</p>
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		By: Ian Hardy		</title>
		<link>https://rachellegardner.com/sometimes-you-fail/#comment-432064</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ian Hardy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Mar 2013 00:10:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Rachelle,

Thanks for the great blog!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rachelle,</p>
<p>Thanks for the great blog!</p>
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