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		By: Dark Acre Jack		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2015 22:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Came across this blog post while Googling the title. Thanks for putting down so clearly, Rachelle.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Came across this blog post while Googling the title. Thanks for putting down so clearly, Rachelle.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Mar 2013 07:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416096&quot;&gt;P. J. Casselman&lt;/a&gt;.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416096">P. J. Casselman</a>.</p>
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		By: Fatmanur		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Mar 2013 10:42:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416096&quot;&gt;P. J. Casselman&lt;/a&gt;.

There are definitely loads of deaitls like that to take into consideration. That may be a nice level to carry up. I supply the ideas above as general inspiration but clearly there are questions just like the one you carry up the place the most important thing will probably be working in honest good faith. I don?t know if finest practices have emerged around things like that, however I am sure that your job is clearly recognized as a good game. Both girls and boys really feel the impact of only a second’s pleasure, for the rest of their lives.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416096">P. J. Casselman</a>.</p>
<p>There are definitely loads of deaitls like that to take into consideration. That may be a nice level to carry up. I supply the ideas above as general inspiration but clearly there are questions just like the one you carry up the place the most important thing will probably be working in honest good faith. I don?t know if finest practices have emerged around things like that, however I am sure that your job is clearly recognized as a good game. Both girls and boys really feel the impact of only a second’s pleasure, for the rest of their lives.</p>
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		By: jessel marie dela sierra		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2012 02:02:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416043&quot;&gt;Joe Pote&lt;/a&gt;.

:)
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<p>🙂<br />
&lt;3</p>
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		By: Lynda Schmeichel		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Sep 2012 07:41:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I have thought of writing a memoir of a part of my life.  In light of the debates going on in the American election right now, this particular part of my life would be totally relatable. It would require a lot of work on my part - I tried to write a post about it &#038; the exercise totally drained me as it chewed up all the emotions I experienced during this period in my life.  Doing the writing was like giving birth to my daughter.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have thought of writing a memoir of a part of my life.  In light of the debates going on in the American election right now, this particular part of my life would be totally relatable. It would require a lot of work on my part &#8211; I tried to write a post about it &amp; the exercise totally drained me as it chewed up all the emotions I experienced during this period in my life.  Doing the writing was like giving birth to my daughter.</p>
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		By: Charise		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Aug 2012 13:49:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m just clearing an episode now (I think, it&#039;s early though). It&#039;s occurred to me to keep certain emails and journal carefully for a FUTURE memoir. But the perspective part will still be a while.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m just clearing an episode now (I think, it&#8217;s early though). It&#8217;s occurred to me to keep certain emails and journal carefully for a FUTURE memoir. But the perspective part will still be a while.</p>
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		By: Beth		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Aug 2012 15:05:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I loved this post!  It resonated with me in a few different ways.

I agree wholeheartedly with the comments regarding perspective and apprenticing.

I am currently writing a memoir.  I&#039;ve been working diligently to improve my writing ability and I feel comfortable that now is the right time for me to write it.  

I can&#039;t wait to check out this book - it sounds great.

Thank you for the valuable reminders as well as the reading tip!

Beth]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved this post!  It resonated with me in a few different ways.</p>
<p>I agree wholeheartedly with the comments regarding perspective and apprenticing.</p>
<p>I am currently writing a memoir.  I&#8217;ve been working diligently to improve my writing ability and I feel comfortable that now is the right time for me to write it.  </p>
<p>I can&#8217;t wait to check out this book &#8211; it sounds great.</p>
<p>Thank you for the valuable reminders as well as the reading tip!</p>
<p>Beth</p>
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		By: Corinda Marsh		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2012 19:15:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416304&quot;&gt;Ann Averill&lt;/a&gt;.

You sound like a very wise woman. I, too, have taught in middle school...nuff said. Now that is suffering. Thomas Wolfe said it is not the blows we give that make us, but those we take. Best wishes to you on your writing. I&#039;d be happy to be another eye on your writing if that would help.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416304">Ann Averill</a>.</p>
<p>You sound like a very wise woman. I, too, have taught in middle school&#8230;nuff said. Now that is suffering. Thomas Wolfe said it is not the blows we give that make us, but those we take. Best wishes to you on your writing. I&#8217;d be happy to be another eye on your writing if that would help.</p>
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		By: Ann Averill		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2012 18:13:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416058&quot;&gt;Corinda Marsh&lt;/a&gt;.

A friend quoted this same bit from Wordsworth after she read the first draft of my memoir about a traumatic period of my life teaching in a poverty middle school. I see now that the first draft was cathartic rage and pain. Now I am on my third major draft, and with the help of a weekly writing group, not only has the caliber of my writing improved, but also the depth of its message.  As many have said, it is much more about the freedom of forgiveness and the refining power of suffering.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416058">Corinda Marsh</a>.</p>
<p>A friend quoted this same bit from Wordsworth after she read the first draft of my memoir about a traumatic period of my life teaching in a poverty middle school. I see now that the first draft was cathartic rage and pain. Now I am on my third major draft, and with the help of a weekly writing group, not only has the caliber of my writing improved, but also the depth of its message.  As many have said, it is much more about the freedom of forgiveness and the refining power of suffering.</p>
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		By: Ann Averill		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2012 18:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416059&quot;&gt;Michelle&lt;/a&gt;.

Michelle, have you read The Memory Palace by Mira Bartok? She chose to write her book after her mother, who was mentally ill died.It is the story of an impossible childhood skillfully told. The writing is stellar and evidences much reflection.  How else do you make sense out of such a mess? I used to teach middle school and had a very difficult class of low ability readers. One of the girls devoured A child Called It. It was the first book she ever read by herself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416059">Michelle</a>.</p>
<p>Michelle, have you read The Memory Palace by Mira Bartok? She chose to write her book after her mother, who was mentally ill died.It is the story of an impossible childhood skillfully told. The writing is stellar and evidences much reflection.  How else do you make sense out of such a mess? I used to teach middle school and had a very difficult class of low ability readers. One of the girls devoured A child Called It. It was the first book she ever read by herself.</p>
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		By: Bestsellers &#187; Writing the Memoir From Truth to Art Second		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2012 06:28:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] When Should You Write Your Memoir? &#124; Rachelle Gardner  Related Posts:Everything I Never Wanted to Be a memoirBeautiful Joe An Autobiography of a DogSoloThe Truth About Butterflies A MemoirLit A Memoir P.S.    Posted by bestsellers  Bestsellers &#8226; Tags: From, Memoir, Second, Truth, Writing &#8226; Comment feed RSS 2.0 - Read this post  &#8226; No Comment    &#8592; Autobiography of Makataimeshekiakiak or Black Hawk Why Me &#8594; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] When Should You Write Your Memoir? | Rachelle Gardner  Related Posts:Everything I Never Wanted to Be a memoirBeautiful Joe An Autobiography of a DogSoloThe Truth About Butterflies A MemoirLit A Memoir P.S.    Posted by bestsellers  Bestsellers &bull; Tags: From, Memoir, Second, Truth, Writing &bull; Comment feed RSS 2.0 &#8211; Read this post  &bull; No Comment    &larr; Autobiography of Makataimeshekiakiak or Black Hawk Why Me &rarr; [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Michelle		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2012 14:08:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416088&quot;&gt;Andrew Budek-Schmeisser&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you]]></description>
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<p>Thank you</p>
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		By: marion		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2012 13:32:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416019&quot;&gt;carol brill&lt;/a&gt;.

Amy Tan wrote her grandmother&#039;s memoir. The Bonesetters Daughter. Facts somehow transposed into a parallel fictional universe.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416019">carol brill</a>.</p>
<p>Amy Tan wrote her grandmother&#8217;s memoir. The Bonesetters Daughter. Facts somehow transposed into a parallel fictional universe.</p>
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		By: Martha Hart		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Martha Hart]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2012 12:28:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416097&quot;&gt;Andrew Budek-Schmeisser&lt;/a&gt;.

Andrew - your thoughtful comments on this topic are intriguing. And you seem to know yourself pretty well on this point - and you know the power (both dark and light versions) of writing. I suspect you&#039;ll also know when (or if) you get to a point where you can or need to go further. Cheers.

P.J. - what a wonderful story about your uncle and his sensitivity... and a burden no one should have to endure. Bravo.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://rachellegardner.com/when-should-you-write-your-memoir/#comment-416097">Andrew Budek-Schmeisser</a>.</p>
<p>Andrew &#8211; your thoughtful comments on this topic are intriguing. And you seem to know yourself pretty well on this point &#8211; and you know the power (both dark and light versions) of writing. I suspect you&#8217;ll also know when (or if) you get to a point where you can or need to go further. Cheers.</p>
<p>P.J. &#8211; what a wonderful story about your uncle and his sensitivity&#8230; and a burden no one should have to endure. Bravo.</p>
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