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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2012 23:12:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&lt;a href=&quot;http://softmania.sk/ikony-kurzory/perfect-toolbar-icons&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt; It agree, very useful piece&lt;/a&gt;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://softmania.sk/ikony-kurzory/perfect-toolbar-icons" rel="nofollow"> It agree, very useful piece</a></p>
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		By: M. K. Clarke		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[M. K. Clarke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 03:45:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;I&#039;m a big fan of instincts, as i too, pick my writing references and leisure books this way. I also get my stories this way, and usually, if my instinct tells me this is the one to do, the story itself won&#039;t let me go.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Still one question nags, though: If you know in your gut a book is good and you can&#039;t put it down, how would you know that would have the same reaction with someone else? Conversely, if a book is so-so and others things pull you away from it--e-mail, Blackberrys, kids, dinner--who can say for certain this would be the same reaction in anyone else?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is a comfort to know a read I&#039;d devise would be one I couldn&#039;t put down . . . but I think to add to this, would be another read that you&#039;re still thinking about long after you&#039;ce put it down--or while you&#039;re making dinner, Blackberry-ing, changing dirty diapers, homeschooling. . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~Missye]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>I&#39;m a big fan of instincts, as i too, pick my writing references and leisure books this way. I also get my stories this way, and usually, if my instinct tells me this is the one to do, the story itself won&#39;t let me go.</p>
<p>Still one question nags, though: If you know in your gut a book is good and you can&#39;t put it down, how would you know that would have the same reaction with someone else? Conversely, if a book is so-so and others things pull you away from it&#8211;e-mail, Blackberrys, kids, dinner&#8211;who can say for certain this would be the same reaction in anyone else?</p>
<p>It is a comfort to know a read I&#39;d devise would be one I couldn&#39;t put down . . . but I think to add to this, would be another read that you&#39;re still thinking about long after you&#39;ce put it down&#8211;or while you&#39;re making dinner, Blackberry-ing, changing dirty diapers, homeschooling. . . .</p>
<p>~Missye</p>
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		By: Rebecca		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 18:01:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;I know exactly what you mean about whether a book stirs my longing or doesn&#039;t. thanks for making a comparison that I understand.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>I know exactly what you mean about whether a book stirs my longing or doesn&#39;t. thanks for making a comparison that I understand.</p>
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		By: Richard Von Wolfgang		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 03:30:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Thanks for sharing!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Thanks for sharing!</p>
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		By: patriciazell		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 02:40:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Prayer first, then instinct. I&#039;m constantly praying for the people who are in my life, and when I am with people, I constantly look for ways that I can a positive blessing to them. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As far as reading books goes, I used to read lots of books all the time. However, since I went back to teaching in 2002 and really learned how to use computers, most of my reading is shorter stuff. For me to read a book now, the writing has to draw me in.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Prayer first, then instinct. I&#39;m constantly praying for the people who are in my life, and when I am with people, I constantly look for ways that I can a positive blessing to them. </p>
<p>As far as reading books goes, I used to read lots of books all the time. However, since I went back to teaching in 2002 and really learned how to use computers, most of my reading is shorter stuff. For me to read a book now, the writing has to draw me in.</p>
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		By: CMOM Productions		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 17:38:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Instincts are very important and I completely respect that you, and other agents, follow your gut! If you don&#039;t love it, it&#039;s not right for you and that makes sense.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Instincts are very important and I completely respect that you, and other agents, follow your gut! If you don&#39;t love it, it&#39;s not right for you and that makes sense.</p>
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		By: Rachelle		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 06:12:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;I enjoyed this post. I know what you mean, a book has to call for you. I just finished reading &#034;Uglies&#034; by Scott Westerfield and that book was driving me crazy. I couldn&#039;t get the kids to bed quick enough! I had to know what was going to happen.&lt;br /&gt;In the same vein, if my character&#039;s are haunting me as I&#039;m writing their story then I feel like I&#039;m headed in the right direction.&lt;br /&gt;And instinct--as many have said, being a mom provides so many situations to trust your instinct.&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for the great advice your blog offers.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>I enjoyed this post. I know what you mean, a book has to call for you. I just finished reading &quot;Uglies&quot; by Scott Westerfield and that book was driving me crazy. I couldn&#39;t get the kids to bed quick enough! I had to know what was going to happen.<br />In the same vein, if my character&#39;s are haunting me as I&#39;m writing their story then I feel like I&#39;m headed in the right direction.<br />And instinct&#8211;as many have said, being a mom provides so many situations to trust your instinct.<br />Thanks for the great advice your blog offers.</p>
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		By: Anonymous		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 05:08:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Rachelle,&lt;br /&gt;I can&#039;t let it just ride this time. I am offended at your comment of &#034;Cristian sounding words.&#034; As true Christians we should gladly use &#034;CHRISTian words&#034; rather than being conformed to the world: that&#039;s what the Bible calls it.&lt;br /&gt;I love God and want to bring others to salvation the way God tells us to; rather than other &#034;methods&#034; that dishonor our wonderful Lord.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Rachelle,<br />I can&#39;t let it just ride this time. I am offended at your comment of &quot;Cristian sounding words.&quot; As true Christians we should gladly use &quot;CHRISTian words&quot; rather than being conformed to the world: that&#39;s what the Bible calls it.<br />I love God and want to bring others to salvation the way God tells us to; rather than other &quot;methods&quot; that dishonor our wonderful Lord.</p>
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		By: Anonymous		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 02:39:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;Obviously Rachelle does not understand: She admits her readers are not all Christians; yet she thinks the unsaved have the Holy Spirit guiding them, since she calls Him simply instinct. The Holy Spirit is one of the three persons of the Godhead. God gave tha various animals amazing instict; He gives those who accept Christ , the gift of the Holy Spirit. To call the Holy Spirit simply instinct; Rachelle should remove her own comment; it is so terrible. She needs to study up on God&#039;s word, and respect it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>Obviously Rachelle does not understand: She admits her readers are not all Christians; yet she thinks the unsaved have the Holy Spirit guiding them, since she calls Him simply instinct. The Holy Spirit is one of the three persons of the Godhead. God gave tha various animals amazing instict; He gives those who accept Christ , the gift of the Holy Spirit. To call the Holy Spirit simply instinct; Rachelle should remove her own comment; it is so terrible. She needs to study up on God&#39;s word, and respect it.</p>
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		By: Kelly Lyman		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 02:24:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;I rely on my instinct when it comes to raising my kids. Was that a real cry or a fake cry? I also use it when I&#039;m leading the teens I work with. It&#039;s amazing how so many times I want to jump in a give them a piece of advice, but instinct tells me to keep my mouth shut because there&#039;s more coming. I&#039;m usually right.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for this post. It was great to hear from the agent side of things.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>I rely on my instinct when it comes to raising my kids. Was that a real cry or a fake cry? I also use it when I&#39;m leading the teens I work with. It&#39;s amazing how so many times I want to jump in a give them a piece of advice, but instinct tells me to keep my mouth shut because there&#39;s more coming. I&#39;m usually right.</p>
<p>Thanks for this post. It was great to hear from the agent side of things.</p>
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		By: sarah		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 01:30:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;For many years I didn&#039;t trust my instincts and I ended up getting into a lot of trouble. Now I do..As a social worker I look beyond people&#039;s words to what my gut is picking up. People tell me I have good gut sense.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>For many years I didn&#39;t trust my instincts and I ended up getting into a lot of trouble. Now I do..As a social worker I look beyond people&#39;s words to what my gut is picking up. People tell me I have good gut sense.</p>
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		By: christa		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 01:05:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;I put down The Time-Traveler&#039;s Wife after three pages. Guess that&#039;s why I&#039;m not an agent. . .]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>I put down The Time-Traveler&#39;s Wife after three pages. Guess that&#39;s why I&#39;m not an agent. . .</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 00:31:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;I’m not sure I agree with the instinct/Holy Spirit comparison. Not every spirit is from God, but for that matter, I don’t think God has to tell us what to do in every little activity in our lives. I think he expects us to know what we should do without him having to tell us again. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As for going with the gut and basing a decision on how willing we are to put a book down, I can see problems with that. When I was a kid, there were books that I loved slipping off into. I would reach the end of the book, turn back to page one and start reading it all over again. I’m not as thrilled about them now, but kids might be. But I also consider some of the stories I either wrote or considered writing a few years ago and though I found it easy to slip into that world then, I have no interest in the story now. The story is no less of a good story now than it was then, but because I’m stressed out about different things now, my choice of worlds to slip into is different. To rely on the gut to know which world readers will want to slip into is to assume that readers are stressed about the same things as one’s self, when in fact some readers are, but others are stressed about other things.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>I’m not sure I agree with the instinct/Holy Spirit comparison. Not every spirit is from God, but for that matter, I don’t think God has to tell us what to do in every little activity in our lives. I think he expects us to know what we should do without him having to tell us again. </p>
<p>As for going with the gut and basing a decision on how willing we are to put a book down, I can see problems with that. When I was a kid, there were books that I loved slipping off into. I would reach the end of the book, turn back to page one and start reading it all over again. I’m not as thrilled about them now, but kids might be. But I also consider some of the stories I either wrote or considered writing a few years ago and though I found it easy to slip into that world then, I have no interest in the story now. The story is no less of a good story now than it was then, but because I’m stressed out about different things now, my choice of worlds to slip into is different. To rely on the gut to know which world readers will want to slip into is to assume that readers are stressed about the same things as one’s self, when in fact some readers are, but others are stressed about other things.</p>
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		By: Jil		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 23:47:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&gt;I have been teaching English to foreign adults for many years and rely on instinct a lot. Is the loud, domineering Russian who interrupts and is rude to everyone really suffering from loss of self esteem?  He who put  electrical systems into space ships and hobnobbed  with astronauts but is now treated as just an old illiterate in a foreign land. The Chinese woman who spent years in a prison camp but before that worked in the Shanghai museum.   Following my instincts  makes it possible to help these people become themselves again.&lt;br /&gt;  I also train dogs and, as each is different, instinct is used working with them.&lt;br /&gt;    Trusting this gut feeling is the important thing.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>I have been teaching English to foreign adults for many years and rely on instinct a lot. Is the loud, domineering Russian who interrupts and is rude to everyone really suffering from loss of self esteem?  He who put  electrical systems into space ships and hobnobbed  with astronauts but is now treated as just an old illiterate in a foreign land. The Chinese woman who spent years in a prison camp but before that worked in the Shanghai museum.   Following my instincts  makes it possible to help these people become themselves again.<br />  I also train dogs and, as each is different, instinct is used working with them.<br />    Trusting this gut feeling is the important thing.</p>
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